I remember in high school a girl called me “chunk legs”, a boy at youth camp cat-calling saying I had “thick calves for a tiny girl”, I remember getting uncomfortable anytime anyone even made a kind compliment about my legs, avoiding wearing my favorite dresses, doing Pilates routines over and over to try to elongate and slenderize my short, muscular legs, and I definitely remember saying I would never be able to wear boyfriend fit jeans or mom jeans because of my shape. And